I use low beam 70% of the time, in the city, and all-time whenever I am on highways (provided the oncoming vehicles are not troubled). When the oncomer in the city is using high beam, I give him a dose by switching to high beams till he gives up. I personally feel that 50% truck/taxi drivers are very helpful when it comes to switching to low beam when compared to auto-rickshaw drivers and motor-cyclists. I focus on the road instead of looking/staring at the headlamps of oncoming cars and, this itself, solves my problem of night driving in the city.
I have a Fiat Punto MJD. Since the car has single barrel headlamps, I gave up the plan for HIDs in the headlamp since it would be troublesome to oncoming traffic at night and I would also lose flash functionality. Since I had already bought Philips 6000k HIDs, I decided to put them on the fog lamps. Now, I can control the HIDs manually and operate the headlight independently.
My pattern of using lights-
1. Slow traffic in City: Low beams only and occassional high beam to teach oncoming drivers
2. High speed in City: Low beams with fog lamp HIDs in action. This mode is only for occassional speed bursts.
3. Highway: Low beams with fog lamp HIDs in action when there is oncoming traffic. High beams and fog lamp HIDs when there is no traffic and I am doing 3 digit speeds.
During evening time, I occassionaly keep my HIDs and parking lamp on, for showing off or getting noticed, you can say!
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