FOUR on a single scooter is quite common in India; when brakes of a Bus fail, it could lead to unfortunate accidents. The children will miss their loving Dad and it is tough for them. I feel sorry for the Family and my sympathies are with them. Hope the Family comes out of Trauma soon.
I was checking HOW i managed to avoid soooooo many potentially dangerous accidents and
penned my methods below :
- Mission: My mission is to REACH my destination safe.
- Which Lane ? : i will stick to the LEFT and won't trespass onto the Faster Lanes, if my bike is loaded.
- Speed: i will NOT become a nuisance to others. i will be with the Flow of Traffic. Others have their own priorities, and I AM NOT one of those priorities. Moreover, i don't like even the thought of others secretly bad mouthing me.
- Phone: i completely ignore my phone while on my Bike. As i am NOT buying and selling Ships and Planes, i select the "Airplane Mode".
- Talking to pillion rider(s): mostly, they talk and i say "Yes ... No... Heh heh heh". Any conversation involving brain-work IS AVOIDED. "Just enjoy the Drive", i tell them.
- TWO Mirrors: i don't think that the guy behind me will take care of me. Who knows, this may be his first drive. i keep checking the Traffic behind me.
- Hand Signals : i might have blinkers, but i use my hands liberally while "Halting, slowing down, changing lanes or turning".
- Attitude: i admit that i bought something WITHIN my Budget ! ... And EVERYONE knows it. i won't try to show-off what i am NOT. Of course, those willing to loose body parts have the liberty to show attitude.
- Size DOES Matter : The guy driving a BIGGER vehicle is THE BOSS . Blocking BOSS or Cutting in front of BOSS is a strict NO-No; he may NOT apply brake. As i do NOT want a visit to nearby Hospital, I will YIELD and DRIVE SAFE.
- ALL to Nil: Sorry, but i feel more than half of Indian drivers don't have proper Traffic Sense. A small mistake from someone, and "a living being becomes a dead BODY in no time". I will factor in THAT ERROR from other road users and and will constantly look out for trouble to escape from hazards.
- Overtake under OWN POWER: i know i drive a 100CC Bike. If i need someone's MERCY to complete a overtaking move, I will NOT overtake. It is not SMARTNESS but unadultrated BEGGING or STEALING. YUCK. Check PS-2 below.
- Suicide help number : Not every driver on the Road works with "Suicide Prevention Squad". They may be busy in their own thoughts. If i cut-in or AIM for that impossible GAP, they may NOT have time to save me from my Suicidal Driving by applying brakes or moving away; who knows, they may have installed DashCams to come out of "Rash and negligent driving Charges". Knowing THESE, i will ERASE my suicidal tendencies before starting the engine and Drive cheerfully and safe.
Drive safe, Be Alert and Reach Home to the loved ones with your dashing smile
PS-1: # 9 above is written from MY own experiences of NOT even reaching for brake. Many times, I allowed the bumper to lovingly (meaning, with a Baby hands) touch a two-wheeler. Recently, as I was coming to stop completely at a Signal, a 40 plus old man on his scooter pushed his front wheel inches ahead of me. Had i wanted, I could have held onto my Bike's brakes more tightly; instead I hand and foot came off the brakes. In slow motion he fell down; he got up met my cold staring eyes and without a word just picked up his scooter.
PS-2: This example should help many... Once in moving traffic, a College kid & his buddy were on a Pulsar to my left; we both were moving at Speed of Traffic. A parked Cab was 8-9 feet ahead in Kid's path and he needed to slow down. I knew that the "
Kid wasn't going anywhere, if he accelerated, without me applying brakes". Kid accelerated but
i didn't CARE to touch my brakes. Kid ended up mildly touching the Cab's bumper and Cab driver caught him. One has to understand that this $#it happens when other drivers do not wish to encourage begging. Let us make "road-beggars-free India" and enjoy our drives