Most countries where I have been to, I realised something amiss while on the road even in heavy traffic. And that turned out to be people do not honk much by habit. And when they do, which is rare, it seemed like a last resort. It's equal to abusing someone on the road. The person who's being honked at looks like someone's slapped him tight. Even in the jammed roads of Bangkok I didn't find anyone honking, much to my surprise.
Every time I returned for about a week I thought I'd make amends and not honk as in our Indian way. I managed it for some time but lost it as time passed. Without honking it's dangerous to drive on Indian roads. If you don't honk the autowalla and other drivers think they have the right of way and suddenly they will swing in front of you. There's no civilised telepathy happening here. So, be civil, but honk you must on Indian roads, a little more than what you would if driving in a quieter country.
Every time I returned for about a week I thought I'd make amends and not honk as in our Indian way. I managed it for some time but lost it as time passed. Without honking it's dangerous to drive on Indian roads. If you don't honk the autowalla and other drivers think they have the right of way and suddenly they will swing in front of you. There's no civilised telepathy happening here. So, be civil, but honk you must on Indian roads, a little more than what you would if driving in a quieter country.